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Let's find your next step.

Answer three short questions and you'll see what to do first, what testing makes sense, and which care options fit, with the reasons and sources. It applies published guidance from ASRM, ACOG and the CDC, plus each program's own rules. It never diagnoses, predicts or promises anything.

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Question 1 of 3

Where are you in your journey?

Where are you in your journey?

How the check decides

Every result comes from these rules and nothing else. Nothing is scored, nothing is predicted, and commission plays no part.

How we source and date every fact
When to ask for an evaluation (female-male couples)From the published timeline. "Sooner" conditions override the waiting time.
IfThenSource
She is under 35Ask for an evaluation after 12 months of trying.Defining Infertility; Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136); Infertility: Frequently Asked Questions
She is 35 to 40Ask for an evaluation after 6 months of trying.Defining Infertility; Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136); Infertility: Frequently Asked Questions
She is older than 40Talk with an OB/GYN about an evaluation now.Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136); Infertility: Frequently Asked Questions
Anything on the "sooner" list applies to either of youDon't wait out the full time.Defining Infertility; Infertility: Frequently Asked Questions
Your next stepChecked in this order. The first rule that matches decides the next step.
IfThenSource
Either of you is under 18Start with a doctor you trust.Gala Fertility program page
You're two women, two men, or on your ownA fertility clinic is your path.Diagnostic Testing for Infertility; Defining Infertility
A doctor has told you that you need IUI or IVFA clinic comes first.Gala Fertility program page; Treating Infertility (FAQ137)
A doctor has found something like blocked tubes, low ovarian reserve, changes in the uterus or a sperm problemA clinic, or a reproductive urologist, comes first.Gala Fertility program page
You have another diagnosis, or aren't sure what you've been toldStart with a doctor you trust.Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136)
The timeline says it's time, or something on the "sooner" list appliesIt's time to get checked, together.Diagnostic Testing for Infertility; Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136)
None of the rules above matchA checkup now, and testing if it's needed later.Infertility: Frequently Asked Questions; Good Health Before Pregnancy: Prepregnancy Care (FAQ056)
Start with your OB/GYN: does it fit?
IfThenSource
You're two menNot a fit.Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136); Defining Infertility
A clinic comes firstClinic first.Gala Fertility program page; Treating Infertility (FAQ137)
It's just youFits now.Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136)
Any other answerFits now.Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136); Good Health Before Pregnancy: Prepregnancy Care (FAQ056)
Gala Fertility: does it fit?From Gala's published eligibility. Every rule that matches is shown; the strongest one sets the label.
IfThenSource
You're not one male and one female partnerNot a fit.Gala Fertility program page
Either of you is under 18Not a fit.Gala Fertility program page
You live in New York, New Jersey or Rhode IslandNot a fit.Gala Fertility program page
You live outside the United StatesNot a fit.Gala Fertility program page
You live in Washington, DC or a US territoryCheck availability.Gala Fertility program page
A clinic comes first, or you've checked known or suspected problems with the uterus or tubesClinic first.Gala Fertility program page
The timeline says it isn't time yet, or a doctor should come firstLater, if needed.Infertility: Frequently Asked Questions; Gala Fertility program page
None of the rules above matchFits now.Gala Fertility program page
A fertility clinic workup: does it fit?
IfThenSource
You're two women, two men, or on your ownFits now.Diagnostic Testing for Infertility
A clinic comes firstFits now.Gala Fertility program page; Treating Infertility (FAQ137)
It's time to get checkedFits now.Diagnostic Testing for Infertility
The timeline says it isn't time yet, or a doctor should come firstLater, if needed.Infertility: Frequently Asked Questions; Evaluating Infertility (FAQ136)
What matters most to you
IfThenSource
You pick what matters mostNotes are added to each option.

When more than one rule matches an option, the label follows this order: Not a fit, then Clinic first, then Check availability, then Later if needed, then Fits now. Every matching reason is still shown.

Couples with a female and a male partner, by the age of the female partner. Single people and same-sex couples follow the donor path below.

ACOG says "older than 35." ASRM and the CDC say "35 or older." We use the earlier point, so at 35 the six-month rule applies.

Checked October 27, 2026

Timeline checked October 27, 2026 against the ASRM, ACOG and CDC pages.